Best Affair Apps

If you are going to have an affair in the digital age apps are your best friend.  You can find affairs, maintain, and manage them discreetly all through your smart phone.

  • Apps for finding Affairs
  • Apps for communicating
  • Apps for keeping it all a secret

Apps for finding affairs

Ashley Madison

This is one of the biggest communities online for affair dating.  They have 49 million users and claim to be growing every year.  The community is great for finding like minded married people looking for an affair, especially women.

The app has a discreet cover setting that makes it look like a regular photo app.  This is great at lowering your chance of being discovered if your partner goes through your phone.

The app has 4 ways of connecting with people you do meet: messaging, texting, and voice calls.  It’s a good way to scale up the comfort level with someone before meeting them in person.


Tinder is the dating app you have probably heard of by now.  You match with people by swiping right or left if you would like to meet them.

Using Tinder Discreetly

If you use Tinder enough you will eventually bump into someone you know, and if that person knows you are married they might get you into trouble.

Hide your face – Use a mask, only show part of your face, blur your photo a bit with free online tools.

Use a fake name

Use a different location – Use Tinder’s location feature to search for people in a city near yours.  If you are about to go on a business trip by yourself you can find a fling in that city before you get there.

Connect – and then decide to tell them you are looking for an affair

Adult Friend Finder

This is a more general hookup app for finding people in your area.  Its best for finding short term affairs and one night stands.  When you use it be careful to hide your identity again because not everyone on it might be okay with affairs.

Apps For Staying Discreet

Signal – This is a quiet chat app that won’t give you notifications of messages that your partner could see.

Vault apps – Use these apps to hide suspicious apps like Tinder so only you can see them.

Other things

Lock your phone – make a habit of keeping your phone password protected so not anyone can skim through it.