Best Affair Apps

If you are going to have an affair in 2018, apps are an important tool for making sure things go as smooth as possible.  You can use them to find affairs, maintain affairs, and hide apps on your phone.

Apps For Finding Affairs




My # of Affairs Started


Ashley Madison

67 million


Adult Friend Finder

230 million



470 million


Free Hookup Search

59 million


Ashley Madison App

This is one of the biggest places online for affair dating.  They have millions of users and it's only gotten bigger since backpage was taken down in 2018.  The community is great for finding like minded people looking for an affair.

The app itself has a discreet icon that makes it look like a regular photo app.  This is great at lowering your chance of being discovered if your partner goes through your phone.  For communicating it has messaging, texting, and voice calls: good for gradually increasing the comfort level before meeting someone in person.

Tinder App For Affairs

Of course you've heard of Tinder, you match with people by swiping right or left if you would like to meet them.  

If you use Tinder enough you will eventually bump into someone you know, and if that person knows you are married they might get you into trouble.  Here are some tips and tricks on how to transform Tinder into the best app for finding affairs.

Hide your face – Use a mask, only show part of your face, blur your photo a bit with free online tools.

Use a fake name - This is a big one, reduce your chance of being recognized by using a fake name.

Use a different location – Use Tinder’s location feature to search for people in a city near yours.  If you are about to go on a business trip by yourself you can find a fling in that city before you get there.

Tell them you're in a relationship - Save yourself some time and tell them over the app that you are already committed and looking for someone that is okay with cheating.

Adult Friend Finder

This is app is one of the biggest hookup and swinger communities.  The people on this app are very open minded and are no stranger to orgies and the kinkier sides of life.

It's good for finding short term affairs, and most people here won't bat an eye and you wanting to cheat on your significant other.

Casual X

This is a newer app that is trying to replace craigslist casual encounters.  It is more of a hookup app than something completely for affairs, but people here are looking to hookup so they don't mind keeping a secret.

It works like tinder where you can swipe right or left to find people you like.  If you match you can chat with them, but if you don't match you have to pay to send a message.  My only issue with it is it costs money, while Tinder is completely free.  There also isn't that many people on it yet as of 2018.

Kik Groups

You can find kik groups in your area that are meant to help people find an affair.  The best way to find these groups is on the thread in adultery subreddit where people share kik groups for people to join.  This is the most inexpensive way to find a discreet affair by far.  Everyone on the kik group will be in the same boat as you and will boot people out of the group who are acting weird or get a bad rep.

You can also use Kik app as a way to text your lover and keep your affair a secret.

Apps For Managing Your Affair and Keeping A Secret

Once you've found your affair partner it's important to keep a level head, most people get caught because they get too emotional and do risky stuff.  Enjoy the passion and the sex, but do it in a smart way, these apps and tools can help things go smoothly.




Kik Messanger

Discreet messaging and affair support groups

Seek Verify

An app for doing background checks on new affair partners

Hider 2

A Mac App For Keeping Files Secret

More Apps For Discreet Dating

Signal – This is a quiet chat app that won’t give you notifications of messages that your partner could see.

Lock your apps – iPhones come with a feature that let's you lock photos, folders, and apps to require your finger or password to open them.

Other Phone Tips

Lock your phone – make a habit of keeping your phone password protected so not anyone can skim through it.  If your partner is used to you not having a lock phone, tell them you had a friend get their phone stolen and their pictures downloaded.

Don't save their number - Memorize your lovers' phone number by heart, you shouldn't have their name saved in your contacts.